Sunday, August 28, 2005

The "Up and Outers"

I don't know if you hear it or sense it among Christian or Salvation Army circles...but I certainly do. There seems to be some sort of understanding that real ministry, that which God and William Booth intended is for the down and outers in the inner cities. People who are cold, and hungry, poor and homeless. And, while I agree that there is a definite need there I get a little put out when it is 'implied' that suburban ministry is not as important or needed. Speaking as one who lives in the suburbs and ministers in the suburbs I would argue that the needs are just as great.

Take for instance the story I shared below. People who live in nice homes, are employed, and drive good cars are suffering through broken, abusive relationships. Or take for instance my neighbour who looks weary and tells me she is exhausted. She works all day and comes home to a second full time job called 'parenting', she feels overwhelmed and can't keep up.

People who live on so called, 'easy street' are often running a rat race leading desperate and empty lives. A high percentage of these people suffer from depression. Many feel hopeless and lonely, only you would never be able to tell that by looking at the exterior. Their lives are envied by others and despised by themselves. Many lead high stress lives.

People in the suburbs are living through divorce and blended families. Many suffer from addictions just like inner-city folk. Chemical addictions as well as pornography. The majority of suburban homes are equipped with the internet which is exposing kids to things at a very young age not to mention the secrets that develop between husbands and wives, tearing them apart.

So, is ministry any less valid in the suburbs than in the inner cities...not at all! People are people and we all have hurts and needs. We are all wounded spirits.

2 comments:

Nav said...

I agree with what you are saying. It seems to me that a lot of people assume that the suburbs are a perfect way of life. That could not be further from the truth!

~m said...

hurt and need know no boundaries, and aren't dictated to by money, health, or family background. there are widows and orphans in every walk of life, and all Christians are called to help! (james 1:27)

but let me speak for myself: i'm more attracted to ministry in the suburbs because a)it's more familiar and b)it feels safer. those aren't the right reasons, obviously. the army was created to reach out to those neglected and rejected by other Christians. as times change, the demographics of that large group ("the unloveable") will also change, broadening to include people of all stripes. i think the danger is when we ignore the down & out (the initial inspiration for the salvation army) so we can oversaturate the suburbs with churchs.

which, for the record, is NOT what i think our church is doing.